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感情的需求是不能用其他東西來 彌補、替代的。 想想看，我們的「感情需求」得到滿足了嗎？　　很多人不敢說出自己心裡真正想要的東西，彷彿一說出口，那樣東西就變得一文不值。　　但隱忍不說，又會讓心靈變得極度虛弱，經不起任何一點波折。也許我們曾經鼓起勇氣說出自己的「愛情需求」，可是對方卻無法滿足；只能眼睜睜地看著自己的熱情一點一滴地消散，終就失去所有的愛情熱度。　　如果不想讓愛情降溫失色，記得要即時滿足自己的「愛情需求」；就像肚子餓了要吃飯，身體累了要睡覺一樣，當心中響起需要的聲音：「我需要被人了解」「我需要得到認同」「我需要受到尊重」「我希望獲得信任」「我需要有人鼓勵」，都直接告訴 對方吧！　　不需要猜測的愛情，才能談得輕鬆愉快。

posted by M.R.Alice @ 2:16 AM 0 comments

相識多年，從來沒有送過妳任何一束花，今天我送妳一朵玫瑰。
妳知道我們總是在鬥嘴，總是無法真正放下身段，敞開心胸跟對方說愛。
我知道我的嘴巴不好，說話總惹妳生氣。
但是今天我要向妳說：對不起，並且還要告訴妳：我愛妳。很好，我等了這麼多年，就等你這句話。然後，我還要告訴妳一件更令妳高興的事，那就是：
Only love can make a memory.Only love can make a moment last.You were there and all the world was youngand all it’s songs unsung.and I remember you then love was all,all you were living for,and how you gave that love to me……..
只有愛能創造回憶，只有愛能停住最後時刻，當你在的時候，這個世界變得年輕，所有未完的歌曲，所有你的生活點滴，就是我對你全部愛的記憶，以及你如何給我那份愛……….

posted by M.R.Alice @ 2:00 AM 0 comments

A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty,

He said...no.

She asked him if he would want to be with her forever...and he said no.

She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry, and once again he replied with a no.

She had heard enough. As she walked away, tears streaming down her face the boy grabbed her arm and said...
You're not pretty you're beautiful.
I don't want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever.
And I wouldn't cry if you walked away...I'd die...
SO NOW I WILL SAY:
I like you because of who you are to me...A true friend.
And if I don't get this back I'll take the hint.
Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you.

posted by M.R.Alice @ 1:04 AM 0 comments